Life is a small word to say but its meaning isn't that small at all. There has been a lot of debate over the meaning of life and, no doubt, a number of wonderful theories have been proposed. And why not, after all so many intellectual people trying to define life. One of the definitions which I like most is "
life is not defined by what you did for yourself but by what you did for others".
These words I think reflect the meaning of life in a more elaborate way. Living for oneself may make a man fleetingly happy or give him some material gains but in the long run he fails to make his mark and dies out unnoticed, unmissed and unloved.
Personally I think, that the ephemeral but dazzling life of a shooting star is more meaningful than a immortal but dull and unnoticeable star. It is because the shooting star for all its life time, however small, shined at its full capacity and made a mark in your memory while you can see hundreds of stars daily but do you really differentiate one from other and remember one?
Everybody has his own idea of life, and so do I. I visualize life as a breadth-wise long (virtually infinite) painting with people drawn over it like a crowd. People we know closely are in the front rows of this mob while the distant ones in the painting represent those who are more of an acquaintance. While circles with unnoticeable faces farther back in the mob represent the people which pass before our eyes daily unnoticed.
Further this painting is not static with time i.e. it keeps on changing dynamically. People keep on shuffling between the different rows in the mob. Some come nearer while others fall back. Occasionally some even jump out of the mob to get your full attention before again falling back into the mob and becoming the background. As you notice people and start to know them they move closer to you in the painting while as you forget people they are pushed back in the mob.
Each person in the mob, in himself, is like a book of riddles. More the number of riddles you have solved, more closely you know the person concerned. Some of the riddles are easy to solve while others are really hard to crack, and you never really know the correct answer, for some of the tough ones are the ones which lead to unpredictability of the person. More skilled you are at solving these riddles more the number of friends you make and closer you get to these people.
Having said what I have said, I would like to make it clear that life is not a simple thing to be expressed holistically in words and one has to live it to understand it (or at least get a glimpse of it). But a life with no goal is no life at all.
In India, you can see a lot of people living in road side huts in large towns and cities. These huts are made of nothing but brick and mud and with a roof of plastic sheets and wooden sticks, some of the huts are completely made of plastics sheets and look more like a tent than a house. You can see their children roaming on the roads missing the traffic by inches while their mother in busy doing the household chores on the roadside. God only knows where they go to answer nature's call. The tattered clothes of the children have more holes than threads and you can count
on their ribs through the holes. I wonder what is the use of living such a life. On the other hand, what possibly could they do to absolve themselves from this predicament. Their parents didn't have enough resources to send them to study nor did they care about the future of anyone because they had a lot of worries on their present. Regardless, I think it is better to die, trying to improve, than to give up and sit back waiting for the end.
In the end, I will like to make it a point that "
life is as you live it". If you want to live it worrying about things that are not under your control then only god can help you, on the other hand you may want to live happily being merry in the sad times as well. It is you who has to make the choice.